Rest of TN/I Almost Killed Jack

Tennessee Tuesday: We started our day with a visit to the Relic Room. Jack was able to find a very old Roman coin that he used his birthday money to purchase. We had lunch at Freddy’s, which we had not heard of but are everywhere in Tennessee. It was like a Steak-n-Shake and it was fine. Then, we went to Dollywood. It was empty compared to Sunday.  We rode the newest ride, Big Bear Mountain, 5 times and never waited more than 10 minutes. Virtually everything was a walk-on, which was super fun. We rode all the rides, ate more cinnamon bread, and browsed the shops. The emptiness was attributable to the weather—it rained on and off all day, but nothing we couldn’t handle and there was no lightning, so (almost all) the rides remained open. We kept an eye on the forecast and left just before the heaviest rain was imminently forecasted, I think around 730.

Wednesday: We went to Forbidden Caverns in the morning. We all thought it was pretty awesome. 

From there, we went to a small general store. Then, it was lunch and off to pick up our ready-to-heat Thanksgiving meal from Publix. Then, we went to world’s largest Bu-cee’s. 

We headed back to the rental and Kara did some senior photos of Anna with the lake and mountain views. That evening, we went to Bass Pro Shops and then stopped at Food City and picked up dinner and discounted donuts for Thursday’s breakfast. One of them was labeled as “Maple and Bacon” which I thought sounded like something Jack would like (this is foreshadowing…). We had an early night, this may be when we watched the Weird Al movie (or maybe the boys watched Planes Trains and Automobiles, both were watched at some point during our week). 

Behind the scenes

Bass Pro had an awesome fireplace

Thanksgiving Thursday. People ate the discounted donuts for breakfast. Jack took one bite of the Maple and Bacon and said it tasted awful and like something was wrong with it. He also said his throat felt funny. He told Anna to try and she immediately realized it tasted like nuts. I took a look and realized it was covered in walnuts!!! What I thought were little pieces of bacon were actually walnuts, aka death to Jack! Ugh, we definitely should have paid more attention, but donuts are a treat we frequently buy and they rarely have nuts (sometimes peanut butter, but those have pb in the name). He ended up using both epi-pens and to make a long story short—is fine. But, I was stressed out about it all day Thursday and Friday (worried about an additional delayed reaction). I felt super guilty and couldn’t sleep. It was awful. We still had our Thanksgiving dinner, it was fine. And the boys went to a park in the afternoon to play football.
 
Friday: We were supposed to do horseback riding and a petting zoo. But, it was cold, like below-freezing. So, we decided to go into town and browse the local stores. We bought a few things and enjoyed a really cool antique store. We also climbed up a dyke and I got a fun picture of Jack (trying to encourage him to do his pictures with Kara too).

We had leftovers for lunch and went to Perkins for dinner and then stopped at Food City for road trip snacks. Kara and I went in the hot tub. Then, we packed up. We left at 5AM Friday and had a mostly good drive, lots of traffic, but we still made it home by 330.

 

Other than the last-minute house snafu and almost killing Jack, we had a great trip. Everyone wants to go back in the summer and do some warm-weather activities. 

To conclude, some of Kara's photos of Anna:

Tennessee Vacation, Part 1

In 2022 we had a Smoky Mountain Thanksgiving. Everyone loved it and we wanted to repeat the experience. Unfortunately, the Wills couldn't make it this year, but we decided to take the trip with just our family. I booked a cabin in April in an incredibly convenient location. We were all very excited about being close to so many things we enjoy (restaurants, Dollywood, the Parkway, the Relic Room, etc). We planned on leaving at 5am on Saturday morning. On Friday night, I realized we didn't have our check-in information. I sent a message and received a quick response notifying me that they had to cancel our reservation due to some sort of syncing error (I understand this to mean that they double-booked using a different platform). We were literally in the process of packing the car! They had sent a message on Wednesday night, but I missed it. Although, that would have still been less than 72-hours notice on a house we booked more than 6 months ago. Not cool!

I immediately called VRBO and they were super helpful, which is a nice contrast to the experience we had with Airbnb when something similar happened (slightly more notice on that one). They offered to book us into a hotel. They also said they would refund us AND pay for the new booking. They offered us 3 rooms in okay hotels (La Quinta, Clarion, etc). But, we had no idea if the rooms would be together and it seemed risky. Plus, some in our family were really opposed to a hotel, wanting that cabin experience or nothing. The only problem--it's Thanksgiving week and everything was booked. The VRBO representative was super patient and we widened our geographical search. She found one opening in Dandridge, which is about 30 minutes from our original booking and 50 minutes from the activities we had planned. But, we were relieved we didn't have to cancel our trip and took it. 

We left as planned on Saturday morning at 5 and the drive went smoothly. We got to our house around 3 and were able to check in. It is across from a massive lake, or what would be a massive lake if it wasn't the dry season. It is actually crazy how low the lake is, the  nearby docks just end at the empty lake bed--it's weird and we wonder if this is normal or a drought. Anyway, the house is nice enough and we all have a bed and room to spread out and a washer and dryer. Our first night, we went to a quick dinner at Wendy's and then Walmart for supplies. 

Sunday, we went to Dollywood. It was packed! There were long lines for everything, but we stayed from opening to close and had a fun day. It emptied out the last hour and I think we did more rides in that hour than we did in the other combined 9 hours we were there. But, we also walked around and enjoyed the beautiful lights and atmosphere and enjoyed the cinnamon bread and other treats. We took the day at a leisurely pace and didn't let the crowds bother us. 

Monday, we had planned to go to Cades Cove, but it was 90 minutes away and we decided not to make the drive. Instead, the girls found a more local state park--Panther Creek (30 minutes away). It was a beautiful day and we did a "moderate to difficult" hike. There were some parts that were definitely difficult, at least for me. After the hike, we had a picnic lunch. It was very beautiful.

Thomas being silly

Pretty view

Into the woods we go

Climbing

We saw a couple of areas where we think there would be waterfalls. But, the craziest part was this completely dry riverbed (Anna's picture).

After the hike--Kara practicing her photography

Luke and Jack killed time by racing. 

After our hike, we went to the Bush's Beans Visitors Center. We learned how they make their famous baked beans. And, the process might surprise you. But, you'll have to visit for yourself to find out. Just kidding! First, they put a piece of bacon in the bottom of the can (the bacon is important to 98% of their customers, but 96% throw it away) then, they add the beans, then the sauce. Then, they cook it right in the can before labeling and shipping. Bush's buys 20-25% of the white beans produced in North America. But, enough bean fun facts.

After Bush's, I dropped Thomas and Jack at the Dandridge courthouse to view their local museum. Dandridge is the second oldest town in Tennessee. Then, I took the other kids back to the rental (only 5 minutes) before returning. The museum was super small, so I met them outside and we went into the coolest bookstore--the Unkind Raven. It is located in a historic house and they sell new, used and rare books. They had a kids room where books are free and a room for crafting. They also had a tortoise who loves people, he was very active and interested in us. One room had been used for a meeting with Union officers. When they retreated, the Confederacy took over and toasted the Union officer who left behind a whisky flask. It was cool to be in that same room.

From there, we went into a couple of other cool shops, then headed back to the rental. We rested for a few minutes, then headed out again. This time to the Alpine Mountain Coaster. I had bought the tickets before the booking snafu, so it was almost an hour away, but we still wanted to go, we've gone on every Tennessee trip. It did not disappoint. After that, we had a late dinner at Chick-Fil-A (we aren't adventurous travel eaters) before calling it a day. We had planned on doing the Winterfest Walk, but we were tired. 

It was a long, fun, day.

Another Licensed Wilson! (and other news)

Lots of big news on Kara. She started her job at Wawa. She finished training and is independently working the register. She has only worked about 4 days (including training). But, so far she likes it. It seems like it will be a good first job and it is only 5 minutes from our house. She also took her driving test and is officially a licensed driver! She took driving lessons and they were the ones who took her for the test. They practiced the test with her beforehand and she was able to take the test with the same car she did the lessons. We also did lots of practicing with her and I know she is ready. It is nice to have another licensed driver in the house.

Jack had his last marching MPA on November 1^st. Anna and I went. She and I have gone together all four years. Kara joined in the past, but this year she had a friend’s party to attend. Thomas and Luke were at baseball. But, Anna and I enjoyed it. Some of the bands were pretty gimmicky (I lost count of how many bands had kids playing their instruments while lying on the ground at some point in their show), but Jack’s band was more traditional, which I greatly appreciated. We watched about 10 bands and Jack’s was our favorite. Obviously we are biased, but even if we weren’t, they would be high on our list. His band also had their fall concert last night (11/18). Thomas and I went and enjoyed it. It was patriotic themed and we liked all the marches, especially the final song—When Johnny Comes Marching Home (or, the ants go marching one by one).

They played the How to Train Your Dragon song and made a dragon shape.

Anna no longer has to take the SAT! After she took the ACT last year, they made science optional. But, they didn’t retroactively change scores for Bright Futures. Then last week, they announced that they would recalculate scores and take the higher of the two (with or without science). That bumped Anna up the point she needed for Bright Futures. Yay! She is debating whether she wants to retake the SAT, because she had been working with Jack on math and her practice tests were significantly higher, so she may still do it, but the pressure is off!

 

Luke’s baseball season has ended. The team ended up with a decent record, I think 17-8. He will probably play with them next season. His old team was AAA and this team is AA, but we haven’t had luck finding a AAA team that is close enough to make it feasible. Thomas thinks his current team has a lot of potential and the coach is really good.

 

We have gone to SeaWorld a couple of Fridays. It is our favorite Christmas event. The park is beautiful and they have fun shows and good food booths. We love it! And, it is still early enough in the season that the park has been pretty empty. We also went to Aquatica on a Sunday earlier this month. The girls didn’t want to go, but Jack, Luke, Thomas and I had a great time. It was a slightly rainy day and the park was empty. We literally rode every slide that was open (except one that no one wanted to go on) in about 2 hours. It was very fun and the girls missed out!

In not so great news, my dad spent about a week in the hospital. He had a UTI and was super confused. He also lost some of his mobility. He is doing better now, especially cognitively and is in rehab to hopefully strengthen his body.

 

I think that covers November to this point. We have started decorating the house for Christmas. Everything is looking festive and fun! Although, we haven’t put ornaments on the main tree, because we haven’t had a night with everyone home since we put it up last week. 

Front room tree is done!

October!

Some highlights from October:

Thomas and I are still at work. They estimate we have a few more weeks before we run out of funding. Hopefully, the Government shutdown will end before that.

Jack had his senior night for band. Thomas and I walked him across the football field. For his information sheet, he said he wanted to go to FSU and major in wine and culture. He has no idea what he wants to study, so he said he looked up funny majors. There are a lot of lasts this year, which is both sad and exciting. He finished his applications for Florida colleges. And, they had another school SAT day; Jack got a perfect English score, which brings his superscore to 1560! 

Anna came to support her twin.

Kara and I have gone to HHN several more times. We also had a fun morning at Animal Kingdom. The weather this year has been really nice. It's the coolest October we've had since we moved here, so it's especially fun to do things outside. She has been doing lacrosse and is improving as goalie. She also (maybe) got a job at Wawa. I say maybe because they've told her she has the job and she's done paperwork, but she hasn't started yet and they keep calling and asking her when she can come in to do onboarding, then she gives them times and they say they will call her back and a week later the cycle repeats. 

Luke joined a baseball team. It is kind of far away (40 minutes) and they aren't as experienced as his last team. But, the coach is really good (still holds the record at UCF for most hits or something) and the kids/families are nice. Luke had his first grand slam. It was his 4th over the fence homerun this year. He went to a paintball party for one of his old teammates. He liked being with Gael, but thought paintball hurt and does not want to play again. 

Anna didn't get the score she wanted on the SAT, so she is studying again. She applied to a few schools and has already received an acceptance, but she is more doing it for fun as she wants to start with Valencia and then go out of state. She, Kara and I had a fun day at Magic Kingdom. We went on a party morning and rode several rides with little to no wait. We also went to the Food and Wine Festival at Epcot on a Thursday after school. We each picked out two things to try and watched the concert, a country band. We also rode Spaceship Earth and Guardians. It was a fun night. Luke didn't want to go and Jack had his last football game (for band) so Thomas went to see the halftime show. 

We didn't do any family Halloween activities this year. We did watch some Halloween-themed shows, like Modern Family and our favorite--Brooklyn 99. Luke doesn't get home until almost 5 and it seems like we are always running off to something, band, tutoring, lacrosse, baseball. We should have a break in activities soon and it will be nice to spend more time together. It is hard to think about this being the last year with the 6 of us at home. 

Yesterday was Halloween. Kara had a friend over and they watched a movie. The rest of the kids went trick-or-treating. Anna's best friend Nicole joined them. They have trick-or-treated together for the last few years. This year Anna was a fish and Nicole was a fisherman, they got lots of compliments. Anna was relieved because she worried people would think she is too old to trick-or-treat. Personally, I think it's great to see teenagers dressing up and trick-or-treating, but I know there are some different opinions on the matter.

Anna and Jack are 18!

Jack and Anna are 18! It was an odd birthday this year; they vacillated on what they wanted to do and ultimately it was more of a combination of little things than one big birthday celebration. It started on  Monday with Crumbl cookies for Anna. Anna also picked most of the meals last week (taco pizza, hot dogs with Caesar salad, enchiladas and I still owe her chili). This week, I am making some of Jack’s choices—beef stew and 5-can soup. Friday was their actual birthday. Anna and Kara skipped school, Thomas and I worked in the morning, then took them to lunch at CiCi’s Pizza (Anna’s choice). After lunch, we went to the Boot Barn to get her chosen gift—cowboy boots. Jack went to school, there was no football game that night, so they had a long band practice, but Jack left early, and we went to dinner at Cracker Barrel. The waiter was very nice and gave them each a free piece of coke cake. Then, we stopped in at Academy Sports to grab Luke a first baseman’s mitt and Anna found some Teva’s on clearance. She had been wanting a pair and they were marked down from $80 to $27, so that was a nice birthday add-on..

 

We were too full to eat the cake I made, which Anna chose—pumpkin spice cake with cinnamon cream cheese frosting. Jack said he didn’t want to pick his own cake this year and he would just eat whatever Anna wanted, but he does want me to make him an apple pie sometime in the coming weeks. They opened gifts from their siblings (for Anna: a star projector and cd player, as she is trying to move away from her Alexa and for Jack guitar strings and a table for his record player and records). Jack asked us for records and Thomas got him two vintage Beach Boy ones. They were the same records Thomas’ Aunt had when he lived her and they are what evoked Thomas’ lifelong love of the Beach Boys. Jack also asked Thomas and I for a (historic) necklace, but we gave him a raincheck so he can pick something out at the Relic Room when we next visit Tennessee.

 

Saturday, Anna had two of her besties over. That night, we took her to Waterford Lakes to collect some free birthday goodies—lotion from Bath and Body Works and a bundtlet from Nothing Bundt Cakes. We had dinner at Chick-Fil-A and Anna and Kara checked out Plato’s Closet, which they had heard of, but never been in. Meanwhile, Jack was at a surprise birthday party for one of his good friends.

 

Monday, we made Halloween monster cake pops, another J&A birthday tradition. And, I think that officially concluded the spread-out birthday celebration.

It was fun to spend time reflecting on Jack and Anna the past few weeks. I looked through pictures from past birthdays and read their (sparsely populated) birthday journals and old blog entries. It brought back lots of great memories. We have had some amazing birthday adventures! Jack and Anna almost always chose an outing instead of gifts or parties and we’ve done Yorktown, Busch Gardens, Valley Forge, Great Wolf Lodge, a cruise, etc. But, I think my favorite birthday trip was Dutch Wonderland when they turned 6 (see blog from Oct 2013 for a short video) it was just an overnight, but they were so excited and we had so much fun.

 

Many aspects of their personalities have remained the same, like Jack’s love of history and Anna’s sense of humor. They were both super high-energy kids, which made their younger years mostly fun, but sometimes challenging. When they were little and people asked me the best thing about having twins, I always said it was watching them interact with each other. From tiny babies who would roll over into one another to little kids who would defend each other to the death in preschool, now to teenagers who generally get along. It’s been a fun 18 years. I am sad to see their official childhood come to end but I am excited for this next chapter of their life.

Flashback to their first birthday:

Goodbye September

Kara has been busy the last few weeks with lacrosse and driving. She is ready to get her license and I am sure she could pass the test, but we aren’t ready for the insurance jump. She is taking lessons and drives frequently, mainly to her 3x weekly lacrosse practices. Lacrosse is going well. She has been playing goalie, which is not her favorite position, but no one else wanted to do it, so she reluctantly volunteered. She is hopeful that the regular goalie will return when the high school season starts. 

Anna has been busy studying for the SAT and unfortunately is not enjoying her senior year. She does not like her classes and is both ready to graduate and not quite ready to be done with this chapter of her life. Both she and Thomas ended up doing another night at HHN with Kara and me. This is the first year they have gone more than once and I wonder if maybe Kara and I are converting them to frequent attenders in the future???

Jack is busy with band, clubs, tutoring and college applications. He has something going on almost every day and it feels like we don’t see him much. 

Luke was a guest player in a baseball tournament this weekend. He played first base and did really well on both defense and offense, including an over-the-fence homerun! School is going okay for him. He has already missed a lot of days this year. Some were unavoidable due to his mouth surgery, but he has also been ‘sick’ a few times (and it’s only the first quarter!). I don’t think he is faking it, but I also don’t think he’s too sick for school. However, it is hard to judge, so we err on the side of caution and hope that he isn’t developing bad attendance habits. 

Thomas and I came close to applying for open positions in Bremerton, WA. They told us if we got the positions, we could wait until the end of the school year to move and Kara was onboard with having her senior year someplace new. Ultimately, we decided the timing wasn’t right. The kids have the Bright Futures scholarships and we are both licensed in Florida. We still feel like our jobs are not very secure and if we do get fired, it seems better to be in a place where we can work in our field (and have a lower mortgage to worry about). I would also feel bad leaving my sister as the only one helping my dad. We just have to hope that two more positions open in a couple of years. Ugh, the chances seem so remote that they will have two positions open, in the areas we are qualified for, on the schedule we need. 

Hmmm, something positive to end on??? I finished a puzzle. Luke did it with me. Normally, I like 500-piece puzzles, as they fit better on my puzzling surface (and they're easier). But, this one was a 1000 and it was still fun.

That wraps up the month of September.

Is it October or September?

We haven’t had any luck finding Luke a baseball team. We had some really bizarre interactions with one coach (let me know if you want to see the texts, I am happy to send them out to see if I am the one who is crazy) and then there was another team that was expensive and full of complete beginners. So, no real plan going forward.

Speaking of Luke, he had a wisdom tooth removed Thursday. It was growing prematurely and had caused another tooth to be sideways. So, he had to have the wisdom tooth removed and the other tooth uprighted. Poor kid has so many problems with his mouth, particularly the lower right side. It was hard for him knowing he is going to have to do this all again in a few years to have the other 3 removed. And, he has to go back to the orthodontist this week to have something put on the tooth that was uprighted so that it doesn’t sink back into the gums. What did people do before orthodontics? We had a (mostly) quiet weekend at home while he recovered. Update (since I never finalized the blog):  Thomas took him to the orthodontist who was supposed to put something in to keep the uprighted tooth in place. However, they had a substitute orthodontist in and she treated it like a regular appointment, replacing the wire and bands and even trying to pull a baby tooth. They don’t bring parents back, so Thomas had no idea and when he found out, he was livid. Poor Luke, who was still recovering from the other surgery, was told to keep his mouth open while they did this unnecessary work (he was not due for another routine appointment until the end of October). And, we have to go back this week for them to deal with the other tooth. It was not a good day for them. Meanwhile, I was with my dad in Lakeland for his doctor’s appointment. They added some tests and it was a long day, but I was happy to be there.

Halloween Horror Nights has begun. Kara and I got multi-night passes. As is our tradition, we went on opening night and did every house. We didn't get home until almost 3am. As someone who is the opposite of a night-owl, this was very challenging. 

Anna just goes once with the free ticket that comes with her pass and her day was Friday (I started this blog and never finished, her Friday was September 5). Temperatures this year have been below average, which is really nice, but still nowhere near typical Fall or Halloween weather. But, we just pretend it makes sense to be at a Halloween event in early September. Anyway, we had a lot of fun on her night. We did 7 houses (well, 6 houses, but we went through one of them twice) and Anna was very brave. 

Thomas gave us our last scare of the night. The flash made it brighter than it was :)

Thomas and I went on Thursday, September 11. We had an amazing time, I love being out with him and it’s a much more carefree experience. Kara and I went for just a few hours on Friday night, we saw the show for the first time this season and loved it. Kara went with her friends on Saturday and stayed until they closed at 2am! Then, we were back again on Sunday with our neighbors. We continued the tradition of going with Bevin and Beya and this year Kaitlin and Ella joined in. It is always fun to see the event through other people’s eyes. Beya was especially funny as she repeated “I don’t like this” as we walked through each house.  The girls (who are 11) picked the walking order for each house and made Kara hold on to them. It’s been a lot and I am exhausted!

Unfortunately, we didn't get a picture with Bevin (she had to run home for a bit)

We had a great family day on Saturday. In the morning, everyone but Jack (who was tutoring) went to SeaWorld. We did a few rides, fed the sea lions, and bought treats with our free money. Then, we went to Sam’s Club for a late lunch and a little shopping. That afternoon/evening the boys and I played Cataan (Luke won). And, Anna and I rounded out the day with an evening walk and the weather was absolutely beautiful. It was the kind of day you wish you could just put on repeat.

The kids got absolutely soaked! Thomas and I did not ride :)